Let yourself be at peace, and then take your time for the rest of your life.
l Izhi743 Human beings Life is like a dream, everything is like smoke. Unwittingly, people have reached middle age. Experienced the wind and rain, reading the vicissitudes of life, gradually understand that do not live for others, love yourself, is the right way in the world. Liang Shiqiu said: "the beauty of middle age is to know life well and know yourself well, so as to do what you can do and enjoy what you can enjoy." The rest of your life is very expensive, please put away your "generosity" and stop wasting time on people and things that are not worth it, so that you can live in peace without fear of desolation. Especially the following people, no matter how many contacts, there is no point, it is better to let go and be happy. There are friends who come and go. There used to be a topic on Weibo: "do you think people with high incomes should pay?" There is one comment that I take for granted: "No, since ancient times, we have always paid attention to reciprocity, and no one is willing to pay all the time." No matter love or friendship, the most taboo is to pay unilaterally, I dig my heart for you, you calculate to me in every way, I am passionate to you, you are indifferent to me. This unequal relationship will not last long after all. Cai Kangyong once said: "Human kindness is not gold jewelry, and it will not give rise to so-called human feelings when locked in a safe. Going back and forth is called a favor. " In fact, people are all mutual. Especially as a friend, I am seven percent good to you, you give me three points of love, come and go, trouble each other, the friendship between each other can become deeper and deeper. Otherwise, do not come and go, blindly be asked for, has been consumed, the heart will gradually be cold. For this kind of friend, since it is not cherished, it is better to let go as soon as possible and set yourself free is the fulfillment of the rest of your life. Look down on your relatives Some people say: "in this world, human nature is the most difficult to control. Sometimes the person you think is closest to you is also the one who hurts you the most." In real life, there is a relative who seems to smile at you on the surface, but looks down on you behind your back. When using you, be courteous in every way, and ignore it when it is useless. Smile when something is wrong, sarcasm when there is nothing else On the surface, polite and polite, behind the back, malicious slander. For this kind of relatives who despise you in their bones, it is better to stay away as soon as possible. The famous actor Chen Daoming once said: "people who go up the mountain should never look down on those who go down the mountain, because they have had a good time, and the people on the mountain should not look down on the people at the bottom of the mountain, because they will get up, so they must be themselves." When people get along with others, only by respecting each other can they go further and further. If you do not understand this truth, even in the face of relatives, do not consume yourself in the so-called "worldly sophistication". A clear understanding of reality, not flattering, not flattering, is the only way to avoid harm. A classmate without friendship. People in this life, no matter who, often come and often intersect, so that the relationship can be maintained. Otherwise, if you don't get in touch with each other for a long time, no matter how good the relationship is, it will cool down. Just like the students who used to study hard with their classmates, they naturally had strong feelings when they saw each other every day, but now they no longer intersect and gradually move away. It turns out that people will change, love will be far away. No one will stay in the same place all the time, especially when they reach middle age, they have their own lives and pressures, and if they don't get in touch with each other for too long, they will gradually forget. Someone once said: "affection is not as good as long-term companionship, but it is not worth the vicissitudes of life. I sigh that fleeting time is in such a hurry that things have changed, and there will be no time in the future." Separation, although helpless, is inevitable. In the face of past feelings and distant memories, the best way is: Keep it from the bottom of your heart and meet each other. Hope you are well and life goes on. Everyone's life is a sandy city, time is eroding all buildings, the past has passed away, and turning back step by step will not help. Only by moving forward calmly can life be warm and cherished. Ambiguous opposite sex "ambiguity makes people feel aggrieved, and there is no evidence of love. When to move forward and when to give up, I don't even have the courage to hug. I can only accompany you here. After all, some things can not, more than friendship is not love. " Ambiguous, is a self-deceiving adult game. Deceive you to get short-term happiness, but also let you into the endless abyss. Especially when people are in middle age, although marriage is dull and life is boring, that is the normal state of life. Life is like this. Never find a so-called "soul mate" just because you can't stand loneliness and emptiness. Once addicted, you either indulge or fall, and end up ruining the rest of your life. As the saying goes: "if your soul is not in the marriage, not in the other half, then the marriage will perish and your dreams will be broken." Ambiguity is beautiful, but marriage is not easy. If you don't want the rest of your life to be fragmented, ambiguous members of the opposite sex should no longer contact each other. It makes no sense except to hurt your partner. Over the years, the flowers are still in bloom, and people are different. In the long world of mortals, we can't control who goes far away and who stays. The only thing we can do is to cherish our eyes after a thousand sails have passed. Those meaningless things, no longer entangled; those who are not worth it, let go. As the Internet says: "A simple heart, light but undisputed, calm and magnanimous, with a broad-minded stillness, so as to understand the true nature of life." Flowers to fall, Yunjuan Yunshu, not tired for the world, do not worry about things, life is naturally peaceful and beautiful. From now on, you and I both have the courage to "leave" and the courage to "delete" so that we can be calm and calm for the rest of our lives. One book a week is released by authorization.
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