Take care of your health and live in good health.
bymooneye On September 9th, a young man named Ah Jian died. Because of cancer. He attracted attention because he used video to record his whole process from the diagnosis of advanced rectal cancer to his departure from the world. In less than a year and a half, he changed from a young, sturdy young man to a scrawny old man. These videos are really thrilling. On May 29, 2020, A Jian posted his first video on the Internet, "the helpless request of a patient with advanced rectal cancer." He in the video, wearing a pair of black-rimmed glasses, looks gentle and has thick black hair, just like most young men in their twenties and thirties. If not, it is difficult to see that he is already in the advanced stage of rectal cancer. He asked for help in the hope that netizens can help him come up with ideas to see if there is any way to make money faster, not to ask everyone to donate money. A Jian is from the countryside of Langfang, Hebei Province, and his family is not well-off. When he was diagnosed with advanced rectal cancer, he was 32 years old, old and young, and was the backbone of his family. When he learned that he was terminally ill, he was shocked and worried: what about his two young daughters? What about parents in their seventies? The disease developed rapidly, and after the first operation, he felt that his body was as bad as before, and he could not do any heavy physical work. But he still wants to do more for the family while his body still allows it. After thinking about it, he decided to make a video. On the one hand, it is the record and encouragement of their own anti-cancer road, on the other hand, they still want to make some money. So for more than half a month, Ah Jian updated the video every day. Most of it is about the popular science knowledge of rectal cancer and how he felt when he did chemotherapy. Taking his own experience as an example, he called on everyone to pay attention to their health. In order to increase the number of viewers, he even tried to make two food videos, but with little success. In short, Ah Jian looked very optimistic in June last year. Because in his heart, there is always a hope of cure. So he actively does chemotherapy, lives actively, and actively makes videos. Tell yourself again and again: "the suffering now is the test of happiness in the future." However, after half a month of continuous updates, he suddenly disappeared. It was not until half a year later that it reappeared. On December 6, 2020, Ah Jian came again, looking a lot older than before. It turned out that his cancer had returned during this period of time, and all his previous treatment and efforts had come to naught. During that time, in his video, it began to become more and more painful and pessimistic: Physical condition is getting worse day by day. I haven't eaten anything for two days. Now I have a stomachache and taking painkillers doesn't have any effect. These two days have been urinating is blood color, mixed with blood clots, I do not know how long I can hold on. The state of the family, it is impossible for me to do any treatment, now I can live day by day. I really can't hold on any longer, the pain every day. I was sorry to my parents and children, and finally made such a mess for them. I am not afraid of death. Now death is actually a relief to me. But I can't be so selfish. My parents are old and their children are still young. What should I do when they grow up? As long as I live, at least the children can see me at home. I can also make a video and bring a little income to my family. I already owe a lot of foreign debt when I get sick. Now the only family income is that if my father goes out to pull nails every day, he can earn more than 100 yuan. I have been unable to adjust my state of mind. I feel very tired. I have no hope for the future. I endure pain every day. I am so confused that I want to give up. I know this idea is wrong, the child can't live without me, but I just can't change it. This kind of day when there is no hope, I am really tired. I wake up with pain every night, and then I can't sleep again. Sleeping for more than two hours is a luxury. The motivation that keeps me going now is that the child calls his father after school every day. And when I was in pain, the child watched cautiously at the door, his face full of worry and reluctance. I told myself that no matter how difficult and painful it was, I must stick to it. I feel very upset, I feel sick all over, I can't open my eyes, I'm confused all day, and I can't eat anything. That's all for today. I'll put it off for a while and see what happens tomorrow. In this kind of pain, he occasionally has better times. This will give him renewed optimism and hope. The situation has not been very good in the past, but now I feel better and better day by day. Both physically and mentally have recovered a lot these days. I shaved my head yesterday, but now it's much more convenient to wash my hair. But such an improvement is only a flash in the pan. The illness soon struck again and drowned him. My stomach began to ache again these two days. Today, I was going to buy chemotherapy drugs, but I can't go. We are closed here. No, I have a terrible stomachache again. I'll do this first today. I walked away in the middle of nowhere yesterday. Has been nausea, nausea and vomiting, intestinal distension is severe, urinary catheter is also blocked, suffocation is uncomfortable, and a little fever. Call the doctor of the village clinic, but they dare not come, saying that they will not handle it and let them go to the hospital. When I was ready to go to the hospital, I looked up some information on the Internet, got the catheter through, vomited several times, and felt much better, so I didn't go to the hospital.... Jian must be a good man. He thanks everyone in almost every video. Also always reflect on their own drag on the family, guilt failed to assume the responsibility of being a father and a son. He said: As a father, I failed to do my duty and failed to give my child a complete childhood. As a son, I didn't do my duty and let my parents work for me every day. I think we should do our best and take responsibility. I hope I can stay with them a little longer, it's best. If not, I hope I can leave them some money. I hope (video) can be seen by many people and increase a little income for Ah Jian. Earlier, someone in the message area asked him if he was selling badly. How could he be so sick?Are you still in the mood to make a video? A Jian said that he was desperate because he couldn't think of any other way to make money. In the fight against cancer for more than a year, I have dragged down too much of my family. Now, the only thing he can do is make a video. Even if he wants to make his worst side public, even if he will be scolded for "selling badly" and "eye-catching", even if he has only a little bit of traffic income, he still wants to leave more money for his children. As he spoke in this way, he quickly weakened, and by August, he was so thin that he seemed to be a different person. Both physically and mentally, they are extremely poor: Sometimes Ah Jian is really scared and doesn't know how much longer he can hold on. I really don't know what to do. I'm sorry, everyone. In his later videos, his voice was extremely weak and weak, and his expression became more and more painful for a long time for every few words he said. But even in this state, he insisted on updating for half a month. In this painful year or so, A Jian has had the idea of giving up several times. But his two young daughters forced him to grit his teeth and insist. He knew that a daughter could not live without a father. Most of the time, without treatment, he just lay at home resigned to fate and took painkillers to relieve his symptoms. He said he wanted to see a doctor in a big hospital in Beijing, but he couldn't afford it. By September 1, A Jian said that no hospital was willing to accept him. The implication is that there are not many days left. A week after that, Ah Jian has not been updated. Many fans who have always cared about him will go to the message area to greet him and pray for him silently. But there has been no reply, and no update. So people began to worry, is Ah Jian gone? Unexpectedly, this last moment has become an opportunity for swindlers to defraud. On September 7, A Jian updated his last video, saying: "Today is September 7, and I'm still here. There are many swindlers impersonating me and my relatives. I don't have an account on any platform, and I won't ask anyone for anything. I hope everyone won't be cheated. " With his last strength, he told netizens not to be deceived. He died two days after the video was posted. That sentence "Thank you" became the last word he left to netizens. "Hello, everyone. I'm Ah Jian!" It is the fixed opening words in every video of Ah Jian. From his first video to his last video, there are 466 days in the middle. During these 466 days, he recorded his experience after being diagnosed with cancer. From the full desire for life, to the later pain and confusion, and then to the final collapse and despair, resigned to fate. We have also seen how a fresh life is gradually dying out under the torture of illness. In these 466 days, he filmed a total of 144 videos. The only time she smiled was when International Children's Day was with her daughter on June 1 last year. He once said, "my biggest dream is to grow up with my two daughters, then send them to school, and then personally marry them and find happiness in life." It's a pity that he can't do it. But pity the hearts of parents all over the world, in the last moment of his life, he still wants to save more money for his children, and a little more money. He walked towards dusk faster than the years. We have all read many stories about the fragility of life, but Ah Jian's experience may make us more painful and remind us to cherish our health. A Jian said that he just didn't pay attention to his health and delayed himself. In the early days, he felt abdominal pain, flatulence, poor appetite and increased defecation. But he thought that abdominal pain was a stomach disease, that it was caused by irregular diet and rest, and that he could get over it by taking some medicine. Therefore, after an interval of one year from having symptoms to the real examination, the examination results come out directly in the late stage. He said: I never thought I would get cancer. I seldom get sick. The most serious thing is a fever and a cold. In March 2019, I went to the hospital for an enteroscope. After being a doctor, I asked me to call my family. I didn't even think I had cancer. I always thought I was too young to get cancer. Yes, we always feel that we are young and that our bodies will be fine. So do not know how to take care of the body, stay up late, eat, do not exercise, messing around, feel able to bear. But sometimes, our bodies may not be as good as we think. Therefore, A Jian has also reminded everyone to take good care of their health and go for examination as soon as possible for early diagnosis and early treatment: Don't think that you are young and in good health, so you don't care, eat and drink, and stay up all night once in a while. Be kind to your body. When the body issues a warning, it must be taken seriously, it should be seen, it should be treated. Because at our age, we still shoulder heavy responsibilities. With elderly parents and young children, we can't fall down. Don't be like Ah Jian, when you regret it, it's too late. This is really a bloody and tearful warning. If you want to see the article, you must hear it in your heart. From now on, take good care of your health.
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