May you be your own star here.
duhaoshu How to live, so that this life is not wasted? Tu Youyou said: "never chase a horse, use the time to chase a horse to recommend." Chen Li said, "you don't catch the tide or take any boat. You have to have your own sea." Audrey Hepburn said, "Don't try to pick the moon, let the moon come to me." Indeed, the most important thing in a person's life is never to please others, but to enrich himself, cherish himself and take care of himself. In your own rhythm, broaden your horizons, improve your skills, enrich your life, and develop your pattern. Only in this way can we go to a surprise feast on earth and have a glimpse of the prosperity of the world. Enrich one's horizons Someone on the Internet asked: "does the gap between people really depend on the degree of effort?" One highly praised answer is: "it lies in the horizon. The so-called effort is actually the result of having a vision in place." The reason why McDonald's can become the giant of the fast food industry in the world is due to the vision of one person. His name is Ray Crocker, half of his life is rough, but he always has an insight into everything around him, maintains a keen sense of business, and has never given up any chance to turn the market. Once, when Crocker was flipping through a business report, a car restaurant called McDonald's caught his attention. He found that with the acceleration of the pace of life, fast food restaurants such as McDonald's will be more and more popular. As a result, he immediately went to the restaurant owner McDonald's brothers and asked to do business together. As a sign of his determination, he also used his house as collateral and invested in McDonald's. After joining the fast food restaurant, he studied and improved at the same time, and his business sure enough went up another level. But Crocker is not satisfied. He feels that if he wants to achieve greater success, he must adopt more advanced business methods and even open more franchise stores. At this time, the McDonald's brothers disapproved, and they thought it would be good to have a steady annual income of $250000. After many unsuccessful persuasions, Crocker resolutely bought McDonald's and decided to do it alone. The McDonald's brothers got a lot of cash and were happy. I just didn't expect that many years later, "McDonald's" unexpectedly opened all over the world, and its income-generating benefits could not be compared with each other. There is a tunnel vision effect in marketing, which goes like this: If a person is in a tunnel, all he sees is a very narrow view of the front and back. If a person lives in such a tunnel for a long time, he is like a frog in a well, thinking that the world he sees above his head is the whole world. So, your vision determines your world. Only by standing a little higher, seeing a little farther and having a richer vision can one get rid of the fate in the well and really own the whole world. And Crocker is just like this, he is not bound by the immediate interests, but continues to learn, enrich his horizons, look at the present from the future, and unswervingly implement it. It is only a short time for such a person to succeed. Enrich skills There is a sentence in "Flower in the Mirror": Where piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, medical divination and star signs, such as those who have a skill, come to visit, are treated with courtesy. In many cases, having a skill is not only the foundation of a person, but also the key to win respect. Peng Yuyan is like this. In the past, he was a handsome guy, but now he is an actor. The reason why his transformation is so successful is that he has created vivid characters in the process of unlocking various skills. Some time ago, "Tropical past" was released, and Peng Yuyan became a hot search again because he was extremely thin. It is his extreme thinness that makes us see a vivid air conditioner repairman in the movie. In order to play this role well, Peng Yuyan specially found an air conditioning repair technician who had been engaged in air conditioning repair for most of his life, not only studying his appearance, but also carefully learning relevant skills, reading drawings, measuring dimensions, and carrying gas cylinders. The improvement of this skill also makes his characters more storytelling. Before, in order to do a good job in "roll!" Ashin "carries on 10 hours of intensive training every day to learn the gymnastic movements with the highest degree of difficulty, so that the physical fitness is completely comparable to that of real gymnasts." In order to do a good job in Dolphin in Love with Cat, Peng Yuyan passed the formal examination of the dolphin trainer, making Xu Wei, who is delicate in mind and full of musical talent, jump on the screen. While filming Guild Wars, he learned integrated combat, Muay Thai, Brazilian jujitsu, locking skills and so on. It seems that every time he plays a role, he becomes the character itself. And it is precisely because of this spirit of continuous progress and rich skills that makes him stand out and endure among a group of small students in the same period. A person who is constantly enriching his skills is not only improving his problem-solving ability, but also practicing his concentration and willpower. How can such a person not have a good life? As the saying goes: "good knowledge and good skills are the easiest to get lucky." Enrich life Speaking of Huang Yali, do you think of that little fool in the summer of 2005? Or the song "by the Butterfly Spring" that floats in the childhood memory? Or is it a little-known out-of-date Supergirl? Perhaps, she is nothing, she is just a simple living home. Before # Huang Yali picks up garbage bottles to make star lights # It's a hot search. Click in to know that this summer, Huang Yali started a self-driving trip on the Xinzang line. In her Vlog, we see the music, the beautiful scenery, and the love of life from the bottom of our hearts. By the side of Qinghai Lake, she used the garbage bottles she picked up to build herself a star lantern, which was not only environmentally friendly, but also romantic. Earlier, the house she rented was accidentally exposed at a variety show. In a small single-family house on the outskirts of Beijing, Huang Yali created herself a paradise with music, pottery, painting, flowers and a small vegetable garden. And all this is made by herself. Every singer probably has a dream of a concert. But the market did not give Huang Yali much good luck, and she was not discouraged. She brought in a group of friends, transformed a stage with old trucks, and staged a "loan plan" in 798. That stage.Although it is not big, it really carries the singing she wants. Think of this sentence: In one's life, one can live into firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar tea, piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, hops. Your temperament hides your pursuit and choice. Nine times out of ten, there are unsatisfactory things in a person's life. But the inner pursuit of people, can always be invincible to time, undefeated to the secular, always with a boiling heart, live a steaming life. Perhaps, a rich life reflects your rich soul. You may not be a rose, but you must be fragrant, you may not be ambitious, but you must be your own light. Rich pattern In the table tennis mixed doubles final at the Tokyo Olympic Games, which ended not long ago, Liu Shiwen and Xu Xin lost to Ito Meicheng and Shuitani Falcon and missed the gold medal with 4:3. Many people regret it, many people regret it. Someone even cut off the meme that Ito Meicheng disdained to express indignation. But Xu Xin showed a real great power's elegant demeanor in the interview afterwards. When asked about the status of the competition, Xu Xin said: It's a pity that we didn't give ourselves a happy ending. When asked about his opponent, Xu Xin also generously praised: First of all, I think Ito is a world-class player among the female players, after a lot of fighting, she also slowly adapted to some of my balls. She is an athlete who dares to fight against men, especially in the fight, she is really bolder and braver. These remarks not only show an athlete's understanding of the Olympic spirit, but also show the pattern of a Chinese in the face of gains and losses. You know, before the competition, Liu Guoliang said frankly: The venues of the Olympic Games have shrunk a lot compared with the standard venues. This is undoubtedly a lot more difficult for runners like Xu Xin. And the video of Shuigu Falcon suspected of blowing the ball also made many people question the fairness of the game. But Xu Xin's mentality of "getting calmly, losing calmly, striving for necessity, and letting nature take its course" is more worthy of our cheers. It is impossible for everything to go smoothly in one's life. National soldiers sometimes lose gold medals, not to mention each and every one of us. How to learn to reflect from failure, how to see the gap from anger, how to make progress from helplessness, is the view that each of us should learn to enrich the situation. After all: "small victory depends on wisdom, great victory depends on virtue." To enrich oneself is better than to please others This sentence is written on the title page of "Silent confession": Our whole life is to get rid of the expectations of others and find who we really are. Indeed, in this life, rather than blindly please others, it is better to be quiet and enrich yourself. With a rich soul, to carry all things of time Use a little more skills to break through one by one. To feel the beauty of life with a colorful life Use a broad pattern to explore the inner universe. May you be your own star here, both angular and sparkling. Love what you love, do what you do, don't ask anything.