May the rest of my life be filled with joy and fulfillment.
as the saying goes: Three points for yourself, seven points for people; three points of seriousness and tolerance for friends; three points of faith in fate and seven points of self-reliance. And this "Sanqi law" is not only applicable to life, but also to feelings, which is more appropriate. For feelings, you can deliver, but can not pay in full, love is too full, may be a disaster. You know, the best way to get along with each other is to get along comfortably. Especially in marriage, we should pay more attention to ways and methods. If we want to be together for a long time, we must understand the "Sanqi Law." This law is nothing more than: Clearly speaking, seven points of tacit understanding; three points of communication, seven points of tolerance; three points of joy, seven points of cherish. Clearly speaking, seven points have a tacit understanding. Some people say: "the best tacit understanding in the world is not that someone understands what you mean, or that someone understands your hesitation, but that someone understands your every look and breath." In fact, a good relationship, there are misunderstandings, there are contradictions, you do not need to keep explaining to each other. What kind of person you are, who can really understand you, as long as a look, an expression, he can understand all. When he first arrived in Huangzhou, Su Dongpo was down and out, and his family was often short of rice and salt. after eating the last meal and not the next meal, Su Dongpo took off his long cloth shirt and went to work in the field himself. And his wife followed him without complaint, from an official wife to a farmer's wife. The couple work at sunrise and rest at sunset. when the wheat field has a harvest, they also create a new way to eat rice, "Erhong Rice". Although there is a staple food, this dish is still radish and cabbage. Whenever his wife saw it, she frowned from afar. Although she did not complain, Su Dongpo said to her as soon as she saw his wife's expression, "I went fishing by the river in the afternoon." Su Dongpo likes to cook, but also good at cooking, so their family is Su Dongpo cook, the wife tacit understanding in the side to help, make a fire, boil water. Unexpectedly, when cooking dinner, his wife followed Su Dongpo as usual and went into the kitchen to light a fire to boil water. As she added, she smelled a smell of fish. She lifted the lid of the pot and said with surprise, "it's really fish." Su Dongpo replied, "Yes." Immediately, the two looked at each other with a smile. As for his wife, she also knew that Su Dongpo liked to drink, so she often changed her tricks and got some wine to relieve Su Dongpo's boredom. In this way, she believed in her husband's character and practice, and he also knew that his wife would never give up. The two men supported each other and spent all the days of exile together. There is a saying like this: "those who understand you will understand, and it is useless for those who do not understand you to explain." Yes, the best feeling in life is that someone understands what you want to say, and you can read your heart through an action and an expression without too much contact. He knows your joy, you also know his sorrow, you supplement his recklessness with tenderness, he swore his love for you with action, this is the tacit understanding that husband and wife have been together for a long time. The most comfortable relationship between husband and wife is to speak clearly and have a tacit understanding. To open your eyes and see you is happiness, and it is enough to be with you in this life. Three points of communication, seven points of tolerance Once heard such a saying: "good feelings, is to communicate with each other, mutual tolerance, not a dilemma." Whether it is love or friendship, if you want a long-term and stable relationship, you need timely communication and mutual tolerance. A talented scholar and a beautiful woman are a perfect match, especially Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng. After marriage, Zhao Mingcheng is busy with his career and often goes out, leaving Li Qingzhao alone at home. In order to solve the pain of lovesickness, she often wrote poems to express her feelings to Zhao Mingcheng and was despised by the rest of the world. Zhao Mingcheng not only did not mind, but also supported Li Qingzhao, saying that her talent was directed at herself and was proud that she had married such a woman. Zhao Mingcheng likes to collect gold and stone very much, and he doesn't hesitate to lose all his money in order to realize this interest. As his wife, Li Qingzhao not only did not dislike the defeat of his family, but also supported him. When he had no money, Li Qingzhao pawned the valuable things at home and asked Zhao Mingcheng to buy antique calligraphy and painting. When he met what he liked, the two picked a lamp to watch at night and forgot to eat and sleep. The two people's life, although there is no rich food and clothing, but light food, they also live affectionately. Always like such a sentence: the most valuable love is always understanding and action. A good marriage is to give and tolerate each other, and two people live with a lot of problems without evading or shirking their responsibilities. In ordinary days, trivialities are the norm, and quarrels and contradictions often occur. There is no match made in heaven, the acquaintance of immortals, life is a chicken feather in the same place, and there is never a unified standard for two people to get along with each other. Three points of communication, seven points of tolerance, will be in love for a long time, often accompanied to old age. Three points of joy, seven points of cherish It is said that good love is: "two people in one room, three meals and four seasons, sincerely love you and cherish you." . " The vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet people who are really good to you, do not miss it, we must cherish it! According to legend, Sima Xiangru, a talented man, won the favor of Zhuo Wenjun with a song "the Phoenix asks for the Phoenix". Unexpectedly, when he was in high office and salary, he wanted to abandon his messed-up wife and marry her. But what kind of person is Zhuo Wenjun? her view of love is that "I would like to have one heart and one heart, but the white head will not be separated." . " When she heard that her husband was going to marry a concubine, she wrote back to show her mind: "I heard that you had two ideas, so I came to refuse." Later, not only saved the marriage, but also got the husband's treasure. It turned out that after Sima Xiangru read the letter, she recalled the past between them. At first, their relationship was not favored by their elders, and it was Zhuo Wenjun's brave pursuit of love, despite the opposition of his rich father, and the empty and talented Sima Xiangru. Married life, is sweet, but also hard, two people together, in addition to love, but also have firewood, rice and oil. Therefore, Zhuo Wenjun in order to be with Sima Xiangru, stay together for a long time. She pawned her jewelry and bought a shop, which changed from a rich daughter to a public wine girl. Sima Xiangru also gave up his status as a genius and became a running boy in the shop. At the thought of this, Sima Xiangru gave up the idea of marrying another.Finally understand that Zhuo Wenjun is the treasure of his heart. When Zhuo Wenjun saw his husband looking back, he knew that he was not completely unintentional to himself, so the two cherished each other and grew old together. The biggest difference between friendship and love: Friendship means two people and the world, however, love means that two people are the world. In life, who will accompany you unconditionally, even their own shadow, will be absent in the rain, can meet is providence, can have is lucky. Life is not long, good feelings, not to mention money, status, only know how to cherish, only worthy of long-term possession. Comfort is the most important thing for people to get along with. In life, no one is perfect, and no marriage is perfect. What we pursue is a state of getting along comfortably. Don't worry too much about things outside the principles. If you are "confused", you will be more happy. Three points clearly, seven points of tacit understanding, can understand each other, know in mind Only with three points of communication and seven points of tolerance can we communicate with each other and deal with them calmly. Three points of joy, seven points of cherish, can have joy in the eyes, love in the heart. If life is to be measured with a ruler, the score of three or seven is just right, too much is too much, and too little is missing. 3-7-0, everything goes back to zero, and zero is the perfection of life. May the rest of my life be filled with joy and fulfillment.
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