The position is different, don't ask for understanding, this is respect for others.
GuoXuewenkan In the race between the tortoise and the hare, if the rabbit does not despise the opponent, it is bound to win the name of the champion. We all know that on land, the tortoise can hardly beat the hare, but it ignores the fact that the tortoise always swims faster than the hare in the water. The race between the tortoise and the hare often reverses the outcome when the track is different. Between people, the position is different, what you see, think, feel and understand will be different. It is difficult for two people in different positions to understand each other; two people at different levels do not have to explain each other. Life is short, don't embarrass others, don't force yourself. If the position is different, there is no need to understand The teacher said, "there is a saying:" there is an order in the Tao, and there is a specialty in the art industry. " A person's cognitive level can not be judged by age, educational background and so on. A seemingly mediocre person may have something special; a person with a high position of power may not be matched by virtue. Everyone's starting point is different and cannot be compared with each other. People tend to have a completely different understanding of the same thing from different angles. Just as the blind touch the elephant, there will always be people who will jump to conclusions based on one-sided understanding and limited experience. For example, "Why not eat minced meat", there will always be people who will question other people's helpless choices with their own favorable conditions. Such a person, even if he has seen the big world, can not change the narrowness in the bottom of his heart. There is a cloud in the original way: "sitting in a well and watching the sky, it is said that the sky is small, not the sky is small." Sit and watch the sky, see the leopard in the tube, see the narrow, there are many people. Different positions, why to force understanding, the voice of the heart, why force others to listen. Instead of listening to your own world from the mouths of others, it is better to enjoy your own life in your own heart. There is no need to explain for different levels. It is said that "none of your business, none of my business", these eight words can solve 80% of the problems in life. When you think about it, it is true. Other people's affairs have nothing to do with us. We don't have to ask too many questions to embarrass others. Our business has nothing to do with others, and we don't have to worry too much about it. In the world, how much unnecessary consumption comes from the desire for other people's understanding and understanding, and how many meaningless arguments come from people at different levels. The Western philosopher said, "agree with those who oppose you as soon as possible." Not everyone is worthy of our explanation, not all ideas are easy to understand. At this time, agreeing with other people's views is the best way to stop arguing needlessly. As Lincoln said: Those who are successful will never argue with others and waste their time. Because they know that the result of the argument is unbearable: lose your temper and even lose your self-control. Arguing with a dog will only bite him back, so you might as well let him go first. Otherwise, even if you kill it, you won't be able to cure the scar he bit. Summer worms don't talk about ice, well frogs don't talk about the sea. Life is not a debate contest, silence is not a lack of reason, but a static brake, but also the self-purification of the pure. Compare the heart to the heart in order to win the heart. I once read an interesting passage: In the family, if you are a mother-in-law, you will want your daughter-in-law to be filial to you; if you are a daughter-in-law, you will want your mother-in-law to be kind. In life, if you are a customer, you will want the goods to be cheaper; if you are a businessman, you will hope that the customers will not bargain. At work, if you are the boss, you will want your employees to be diligent and quick; if you are an employee, you will want your boss to raise your salary. People always have prejudices and estrangement because of their different positions and roles. Those who aim to maximize their self-interest will be the first to see the most self-serving solution in front of them when they encounter problems. Often ignore the feelings of others, ignore the loss of others. As everyone knows, transposition and understanding are always mutual, and two people who compare their hearts to each other are more likely to win-win. The competition between snipe and clam will only benefit the fisherman, and only by giving people three feet can they get a six-foot lane. " There is a cloud in the new book: "those who come out of love love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed. " All the luck in the world comes from the blessings you have accumulated for a long time. Life is like a mirror, if you treat it with a smile, it will not complain, push yourself and others, and fate will solve your problems. . Qu Yuan said, "it is true that birds of prey are not flock from previous lives." The way is different, do not conspire with each other, treat strangers, why open your heart? The position is different, don't ask for understanding, this is respect for others. Different levels, do not explain, this is respect for yourself. People live in the world, there is a kind of top goodness Do not understand your actions, but respect your choices; do not agree with your actions, but understand your helplessness. Heart to heart is not only a good way to get along with others, but also the best relationship lubricant between people. 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