If you can't stand a person, you don't have to fall out.
I believe that the whole world will be kind to you.
there is a law of interpersonal relationship: No matter which circle you go to, the probability of meeting annoying people is the same. Even if you block this, there will be new ones to make up. Life comes and goes, and you will inevitably run into people you don't like. Since it is difficult to judge, it is better to build a quiet heart. When you enlarge the pattern, you will put aside your prejudices against people, raise your horizons, and your state of mind of looking at all things will reach a state of peace. People who are mature in heart are pleasing to everyone. Annoying, is the most expensive consumption. Some time ago, when I was chatting with a friend, she complained to me that the atmosphere in the company was not good, which affected her work status. When asked, it turned out that the colleague sitting next to her always browsed Weibo and watched videos at work, but showed that she had done a lot when reporting. This made her feel unfair when she was working overtime so hard that she didn't even have the motivation to meet her goals for this quarter. "how can I report to my boss that she is fishing?" My friend asked me with a sad face. I said, "suppose your colleague works overtime until the wee hours of the morning. Will you report to your boss that she is more diligent than everyone else?" "of course not." My friend took it for granted. "then your report is essentially just a report. You are not in order to protect the interests of the company, but because you do not like her to do less work than you, but take the same salary as you, psychological imbalance. " After listening to this, the friend suddenly enlightened, so she did not like the colleague to take notes carefully to learn her reporting skills. This made her the icing on the cake when she was already conscientious, and she was soon appreciated by her boss and put her in charge of a big project. Liu Zhenyun said in "one sentence at the top of ten thousand": "when people get angry, they forget the original intention of things. They only want to be able to annoy others and delay themselves." If friends continue to contend with the shortcomings of their colleagues, they will only lose both sides. But only by reconciling with each other's advantages can we get the present mutual benefit. Hating a person is the most expensive expense in the world, because what you pay is your own effort. True maturity is to see what is desirable beyond the shortcomings of others, and to find something in common beyond their differences. Zhang Defen said: "if you like others, you will like yourself. This is the first step in loving yourself." Indeed, there are ups and downs in life, right and wrong everywhere. The light is the tidbit, the open is the cloud. It is written in "second Flowers": when you put aside your prejudices and camouflage, no longer anxiety and hope, your heart is really open. Instead of entangling with the current trivialities for a long time, concentrate on moving on. Put down the dislike of others, in order to harvest inner happiness and Enron. What you see is for yourself. There is a story in the Arabian Nights: A fisherman was overjoyed when he found a hundred gold coins while fishing. But he was afraid that the king would come to steal his gold coins, so he decided to hide the gold coins from the king. But he could not restrain the joy on his face, and lest the king should be suspicious, he had to think of a way: he kept beating himself with a whip to avoid showing a happy expression and pretending to be miserable because of poverty. But if he is as rich as a king, how can he covet a mere hundred gold coins? The reason why the fisherman thought the king would steal was to impose the idea of longing for wealth on the king. This is what psychology calls the "projection effect". Thackeray said: "the world is a mirror in which everyone can see his own shadow." In fact, the world in your eyes is the projection of your heart. Sometimes, the reason why you don't like others is that you don't have enough of your own. The writer Yi Shu has a saying that is quite right: "when everyone talks about another person, there is always a basketful of lights that illuminate others but not themselves." To be a man, the most taboo thing is to live in your own world and ask others to act according to your own standards. Use your own yardstick to measure the thickness of other people's lives; put other people's stories under your own microscope. Bacon has a famous saying: "people who always say bad things about others can never prove themselves to be good people." Society is a melting pot, and everyone has a different side. You can't make 1/10000 of him by commenting on others. But what is exposed is precisely, at a glance of yourself. The so-called self-cultivation is to talk less about feelings and look more at the facts; the so-called EQ is to talk less about right and wrong and focus on yourself. As an old saying goes, "three worlds are narrow when there is dust in the eyes, but there is a wide bed when there is nothing in mind." Also push open a window, looking down from the tall building, you can see the beautiful scenery. But what you can see from the bottom is mud all over the floor. This shows that if people do not have height, all they see is problems.
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