Clean up your circle and welcome a better life.
Confucian style Rufengdajia Chekhov once said: "everything in a man should be clean, no matter his face, clothes, heart and mind." People live all their lives, not for wealth, but for innocence and cleanliness. Cleanliness is not only a good attitude towards life, but also the best upbringing for a person. Clean appearance is the best impression. Yang Lan said: "No one has an obligation to discover your excellence through your sloppy appearance." It is wrong to judge people by their appearance, but each and every one of us can't avoid getting to know others from our appearance. Although appearance does not determine everything, it is the most important first impression between people. No matter how rich you are on the inside, hidden under your sloppy appearance, it is enough to be prohibitive. Keep properly dressed on the right occasion. Always pay attention to personal hygiene, keep clean and tidy, is the most basic self-cultivation. When meeting guests, Soong Ching-ling always wears a plain and elegant cheongsam and a traditional bun. There is not too much powder and jewelry, but it is very dignified and generous. Clean appearance, leave a good first impression. The cleanliness and elegance of decades has not only moved Chinese people, but also demonstrated the charm of Chinese women to the outside world. American journalist Edgar Snow once wrote: "she is neatly dressed and her beautiful face looks like a statue." You don't have to be delicate, but you can't be unclean. You don't have to be elegant, but you can't be unseemly. Do not show off, do not exaggerate, have their own taste is very good. Clean words are the best kind. There is a saying in Zengguang Xianwen: "good words are warm in three winters, but evil words hurt people in June." Sometimes, seemingly careless words, light will spoil the fun of others, heavy will hurt the hearts of others. People who are outspoken will not have too high self-cultivation. Wisdom is quick to speak for a moment, outspoken as an excuse and humiliating others as pride. Being kind to others is the bottom line of being a man. To speak well is to be kind from the heart. As the saying goes, "there are straight trees in the mountains, but there are no straight people in the world." A vicious man, full of evil thoughts, is bound to spit out quinoa. A kind person with a clean heart will naturally spit roses out of his mouth. Qian Zhongshu was hospitalized in his later years and hired a country babysitter to take care of his life. After he died, the babysitter recalled: "every time Mr. Qian talks to me, he is very polite and respectful, for fear of stabbing me." Truly educated people will certainly consider the feelings of others when they speak. Such a person is gentle and firm at heart, and his words are calm and clean. They know: to leave a respect for others, but also to keep a decency for themselves. A clean circle is the best self-discipline. Xunzi said, "Peng is born in hemp, does not support himself straight, and the white sand is in Nirvana, which is black with it." The grass grows in the hemp field and can stand without support. When the white sand is mixed into the black soil, it will become as black as the soil. Birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups, and it is also very common in life. The level of people in the same circle always affects each other. If you fly with the Phoenix, you must be an ordinary bird; if you walk with a horse, you must be a Ji. You don't have to have too many friends, just be useful, and the circle doesn't have to be too big, just be clean. On making friends, Zeng Guofan summed up "Nine not to make friends": Those who have different aspirations will not hand in. Flatterers don't hand in. If there is no distinction between gratitude and grievances, they will not pay. Those who are not filial to others will not hand in. Those who fall to the bottom of the well will not hand in Those who are greedy for petty gain will not pay. Those who are ungrateful do not hand in. Those with poor conduct do not hand in. Those who are pedantic and stereotyped do not hand in. Stop consuming yourself, get rid of those bad friends, bad friends, and give up those useless social activities. Clean up your circle and welcome a better life.
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