"Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren", its next sentence is the essence, but few people know it!
More than half of life is not the end, but the prelude to a new life.
dulantea Lin Zexu has his own understanding of educating future generations. He has a famous saying: "if Zi is better than me, what is the use of asking for money? if you are virtuous and have more money, you will lose his will. If the son is not like me, what is the use of keeping money? if you are stupid and have more money, you will increase his faults. " If a child is better than himself, too much money will wear out his fighting spirit; if a child is a fool, too much money will increase his fault. On the contrary, from ancient times to the present, there are a kind of people who have a penny in their pockets and want to buy this and that for their children and grandchildren, but they are reluctant to eat and dress better. There is a sentence in "Zengguang Xianwen" that "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren". Many people only know the last sentence, but in fact the whole sentence is: Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, do not be horses and cattle for their grandchildren. When many people get old, they always think that "if the children are good, they will be fine." they invest all their savings in their children and fail to take good care of themselves. as a result, they give their children a greater burden. If you subsidize your children and grandchildren, you don't have to stay in Jinshan. There is an old man in Hubei named Gu Shaoan. He and his wife have a monthly pension of only 4000 yuan. He divides the money into six parts: 1500 yuan for living expenses and 1000 yuan for deposit 300 yuan for health care and 500 yuan for tourism fund 300 yuan for grandchildren or other expenses, 400 yuan for social expenses. "although the pension is small, we have been to 16 provinces and gone abroad four times," he said. . " When people get old, they have to be rich. Take good care of yourself, enrich yourself, have a good health, have a good mood, have a good life, the whole family is blessed. If you have free money, consider helping your children. They eat and live well, are in good health and in a good mood, and the whole family is at ease. Giving to your children and grandchildren is an expression of love, but you must master the yardstick. Don't spoil, don't indulge, don't backfire. There was news earlier: a 23-year-old man starved to death at home. The reason is that his family dotes on him too much and does not teach him basic survival skills, but makes him a "useless person". The care of the elders to the younger generation is sometimes blind and wishful thinking, which moves themselves, but harms the growth of the children. Children and grandchildren have their own way to go, and they have to face the ups and downs and vagrancy of life independently. Children who grow up in a comfortable home do not know that the world is more wind and rain. Children who are accustomed to comfort become useless in their comfort zone. No matter how much we love the next generation, no matter how much we worry about our children, we can't live for them all our lives. "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, do not be horses and cattle for their children and grandchildren." you don't have to worry too much about your children. You can give some experience to people who have experienced it, so that they can make fewer detours on the road of life. Don't get too involved in your children's life. Love is respect, fulfillment, not possession. More than half of life is not the end, but the prelude to a new life. Work hard for half your life, and your children have got married and started a career. It's time to reward yourself so that you can devote yourself more to life and enjoy life. Like Grandma Moses, who is loved by netizens, she is a An ordinary rural old lady who had never been to an art school suddenly fell in love with painting. In spite of her age, she picked up a paintbrush Many relatives and friends said to her: "what are you doing when you're so old?" "you are so old, what else can you draw?" But the 76-year-old picked up the brush and said, "I don't care. I just like to draw." This painting is unstoppable. At the age of 94, she appeared on the cover of a famous weekly magazine. Don't let age and identity limit yourself to pursue the life you like, and be able to keep alive all the time in life. Be curious about things and try them bravely. The older you get, the younger you get. Aging is the law of life that no one can change. But each generation has its own destiny and life. Our children and grandchildren have their own blessings, and we should also enrich ourselves. Love yourself well, do not cause a hindrance to your children, nor cause disgust to others. It is the right way to live comfortably and live a wonderful and unrestrained life. One book a week is released by authorization.
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