It is not shameful to admit defeat to those who love each other.
I saw a video of a street interview yesterday, in which the girl was asked why the previous relationship ended. She said that at that time they were in a long-distance relationship, and the day before they broke up, they quarreled over a very small thing. It was originally a problem that could be solved by a hug, but across the screen, both of them stubbornly did not bow their heads, allowing the misunderstanding that the thorn went deeper and deeper, and then fell into the Cold War. Less than a week after the cold war, the boy broke up. At this point, the girl was a little choked up, she said: "if I had done it all over again, I wouldn't have quarreled with him across the screen until I broke up in the end." After many years, it is meaningless to think about the original right or wrong. But I found that people always know after losing it, that thing, that person, that relationship, could not have been like this. It is just a pity that if there is no if, the crowd is surging, and if many relationships are missed, they will turn around forever. There is a saying: "when you say sweet words across the screen, the other person can only receive 70 to 80 percent of the emotion. But quarreling across the screen, the other party can receive 100% malice. " All relationships are like this. Because across the screen, you can't see each other's expressions, can't grasp each other's emotions, and the meaning behind every word he says. Maybe you just want to express your concern and yearning for him, but in his opinion, you are being unreasonable and petulant. It was only because he was in a bad mood that he didn't reply to you as much as usual, but you thought he didn't love you and was cold and perfunctory to you. None of you are malicious, but the cold words in the dialog box make up a lot of hostile images in your brains, thus distorting each other's original intention. So that originally nothing happened to the two people, absurdly because of a few words slowly estranged, and finally parted ways, drifting away. And when it comes to emotion, we can only feel the malice from each other, but ignore our own blurted words, which actually hurt people as well. After a pair of friends broke up, the boy once said painfully at dinner: "every time she accuses me hysterically, it makes me feel like I'm a cheap piece of garbage." It is a pity and a pity to fall in love, but it does not make you feel that you are a good treasure. In fact, the premise of falling in love should also be respect, restraint and sincerity. After Lily and her ex-boyfriend separated, they never saw each other again in private. Even if she works in the same building, even if she sees each other from a distance, Lily will deliberately bypass. At first I didn't quite understand that even if two people in love broke up, they would not be like a mouse to see a cat. It was later learned that Lili could not stand each other's procrastination, sloppiness and lack of progress, while the boys thought that Lili had chosen to leave him when she was in trouble. So for a long time after that, he would send malicious text messages and make harassing phone calls to Lily, and several times Lily almost wanted to call the police. Lili said: "I will never forget what he said to me, and I will never forgive him. " Praise can be blurted out, and slander should think twice before you act. Because what you say is like spilled water, and you can't take it back. Maybe the speaker doesn't mean it, but the listener must mean it. The more intimate the two parties in a relationship, the more consciously they should protect each other, because TA trusts you wholeheartedly. So, if you can, try not to argue across the screen, and even if you really can't control it, don't let out those hurtful words without any scruples. No matter who, no matter what, it is safer to talk about it and do it again when you calm down. The feelings of adults are actually quite fragile. Separated is just a few quarrels, several cold wars, several misunderstandings and suspicions. There may even be nothing, but the distance between time and distance is enough to make the two people who love each other further and further apart. By the time you find out, when you are upset, when you regret it, by the time you remember to retain it, it will be too late. It is not easy to meet each other, and it will be a pity to miss it. Don't hurt the person who is important to you with emotion. Things are worn out and can be repaired, but once there is a crack in the relationship, it will be difficult to get back together. If you really love ta, communicate more, understand more, and be tolerant, patient and accommodating to each other. All that is appropriate at the end of the day is mutual understanding, two-way travel, and constant running-in and change. It is not shameful to admit defeat to those who love each other. It's always better than losing a very nice person in a moment of emotion. What do you say? .
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