Another model couple announced their divorce: why did they break up when they were so in love?
I'm here when I need it, and I'm fine when I'm apart.
what kind of spark will there be if you "pack" three couples who have divorced or are about to divorce and let them travel together for 18 days? The answer to this question may be found in the variety show "Goodbye to Love". This trip between husband and wife is like a highly condensed marriage life, with all the contradictions and conflicts revealed incisively and vividly. In the face of Wang Qiuyu, who loves to suppress and has a strong desire for control, Zhu Yaqiong's helplessness is sympathetic. Seeing the alcoholic and alcoholic Wei Wei, many wives can understand Tong Chenjie's reasons for refusing to have children. But when they saw Guo Keyu and Zhang he, who denied that they had loved each other, they felt more regret and regret at the bottom of their hearts. Unlike the first two couples who were collectively persuaded to split up, Guo Keyu and Zhang he, who had been divorced for a year, were ridiculed by netizens as "it's really hard for this couple not to get back together." For no other reason, the interaction between the two is too sweet. After the second phase of rock climbing, Guo Keyu and Zhang he, who broke the ice, opened the mode of "sprinkling sugar". First, Zhang he's ambiguous temptation. Once, when several guests got together to chat, Zhang he heard that Zhu Yaqiong, Wang Qiuyu and his wife still lived in the same room, and he began to have a plan in mind. After secretly observing Guo Keyu for several times, Zhang he poked in each other's ear and suggested that they could also share a room. As a result, he was gouged out angrily by Guo Keyu and teased him to drink too much. In the meantime, the two looked and acted like flirting between young lovers. Then there is Guo Keyu's aboveboard "declaration of sovereignty." In the evening, Zhang he walked out of the room wearing Zou Baba's pajamas and was seen by Guo Keyu, who was sitting in the living room. She complained: "you are so embarrassing to me, at least you are the one who has been with me." The dislike in the words can not hide the concern in it. After several episodes of the program, we saw that the relationship between the two became more and more harmonious, not to mention that the audience began to poke and look forward to their reunion, and even Zhang he, the party concerned, began to want to remarry. However, when the third aunt Zhang he helped to explore Guo Keyu's words, what she did not want was the categorical refusal of the other party. "it's impossible to remarry." Guo Keyu's resolute attitude poured cold water on everyone. After all, they look so good together. In career, one is "Girl Movie Queen", who won the crown at the age of 18, and the other is a hardworking and down-to-earth actor. In life, one is gentle and delicate, one is honest and caring for his family. There seems to be no better match in the world than them. However, Guo Keyu insists that they are not suitable at all. The so-called match, but it is the illusion of this marriage, behind all kinds of undercurrent surging. Zhang he is a good man, Guo Keyu has always known. Unfortunately, if a marriage is to last, it is not enough to rely on good people alone. A good marriage should be a couple singing and harmonizing on the same stage, rather than playing against each other like Guo and Zhang, each singing different plays. They have worked hard for ten years of marriage, but they can never talk together. As simple as asking whether to eat or not, both of them may have an argument. In Zhang he's logic, I ask you whether you eat or not. This is an objective question, whether you eat or not. However, with Guo Keyu, this is a subjective question with no standard answer, and she described a lot of restaurant details to Zhang he. She said a lot, but it was not what Zhang he wanted. In the end, Zhang he only felt that the other party was talking nonsense, confused and impatient. And Guo Keyu himself felt very disappointed. The two sides did not form a positive feedback, for a long time, Guo Keyu did not want to talk about it, and slowly Zhang he did not want to ask again. For ten years, the communication between the two people has been so poles apart. Therefore, we will see Zhang he complain in the program that Guo Keyu has not met his emotional needs. Is it because Guo Keyu doesn't want to meet Zhang he's emotional needs? Actually this is not so. Guo and Zhang are both giving each other their own love according to their own emotional needs, but it is a pity that they are always at odds with each other's needs. In the end, both of them were exhausted in the marriage, but still felt lonely. Such a marriage is not widowed, but it is more suffocating and frightening than bereavement. People are sentimental animals. No matter how strong a person is, he needs emotional support and comfort. Because of this, marriage is more than just partnering. If only physical needs are met and spiritual needs have not been met, then the marriage is likely to end up like Guo Keyu and Zhang he. In life, we can often see that some couples have been together for more than a decade or two, but when they are asked about their lover's hobbies and what makes each other the most painful or happiest things, they often can't answer. The reason for this situation is usually that both sides have rarely responded to each other's emotional needs. The husband wants his wife to understand the pressure of socializing, and the wife wants her husband to share the responsibility of taking care of the family. Each has its own troubles and difficulties, two people feel that I clearly worked so hard, why not get a lover's encouragement and comfort. It is hard to clap alone in a marriage that does not get a response. Over a long period of time, no matter how harmonious the couple used to be, they will gradually become the most familiar strangers living under the same roof, and their joys and sorrows are no longer the same. Therefore, my husband really doesn't like the argument that "marriage is just living together". The underlying logic of this sentence is that as long as life goes on, it doesn't matter if a couple lives as a grieving couple. Is it really okay? The reason why people are called primates of all things, a big difference from animals is that our courtship is not only dominated by reproduction, but also the desire for love. A marriage without emotional flow is an empty shell, the days will eventually decay, and then the wind will blow away.
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